okay so this is an old post from 5 months ago i just read and i actually got really sad, i can’t believe i stopped writing these posts…
ah, today i will be talking about liking someone. i mean in general, how one may like someone, and the expectations versus the realization within this crush.
okay, i think we’ve all gone through this. actually, i don’t think a lot of people have gone through this. the term i like to use to what i’m going to be explaining in a bit, is blinded ignorance. so usually, with a crush, it begins with one person liking another person. for whatever reason, this person likes the way the other person expresses their self and presents their self. usually, these reasons are so unique that only this person can be able to pick them out. whatever reason it may be, whether it be past experiences or lack of trust, certain individuals tend to stray away from reality and may not realize that another individual truly likes them for who they are. it makes it much harder for that person to attempt to talk to the individual they like. sometimes it is frustrating, but you have to know, good things will happen to those who wait. i know it is frustrating to see that the individual isn’t recognizing that you are putting an effort into getting to know them better or to show them that you actually care, but sometimes they realize when it’s too late. that is when they begin to see, that there are people out there that like them for who they are, in the states they didn’t think anyone would like them in. such states like when someone is depressed, an emotional mess, without make up, or simply physically scarred. we as individuals have to realize, it is hard to get back up and face reality when you’ve been through bad experiences but we all have to understand you can never count anyone out. anyone can be different and unique. not saying you have to trust them, but give them a chance. maybe, just maybe, you’ll be doing one of the best things in your life. but you’ll never know if you don’t take a chance. i know it’s hard to those who feel like whatever they do they can’t get through to the one they care so dearly about, but whatever you do, you can’t change the person. only they can do that and it is up to them to give you the chance. best thing to do is to go into the whole ordeal with low expectations, if all does not go well, there won’t be much disappointment. if all goes well, there will be a dramatic change in confidence. it’s a win-win situation.
